On the forum of the mothers of September 2007 is the record of the first 16 months by mothers I ... I never thought, for me it was a natural evolution of life, a little baby-girl-teen-girl .. . and so on until you get to mom. Actually I wanted to have a son at age 22 but the adverse events of my life I have strictly prohibited.
Some complain that they have more time for themselves, others complain of having left a successful career. Just for me there is nothing to complain about.
love a child, growing every day you take away everything you had before to give you the "other" but if you are not able to see the positive in "other" only think of what a son away.
What remains?
freedom? take a shower at any time, to go out with your partner, with friends, to go anywhere at any time ...
career? willy-nilly, even if a mother sends the child to the nest can not fight against influenza, measles, diarrhea ... must stay at home if the child gets sick, can not travel or stay 12 hours in the workplace ...
sex-sleep-femininity and so on ...
I wonder if these are the priorities of life.
I wonder if it's worth being here ... and to think your brains to understand.
Why I do not understand.
The joy of a smile is priceless,
the love of a child has no conditions, is pure and dispassionate
Slow down in the car because vrooom passes the airplane is priceless.
and I could make trillions of examples ...
For me it is not easy to do the mother, the woman, friend, companion, lover, professional, but it is so rewarding to take any role the best I can! For now, the mother
do it absorbs most of my time and I know that I will miss both envi period when Matt grow.
I do love my mother, much as I love to do the teaching ... and say that they are two completely opposite roles ... much like the plumber and the aerospace engineer!
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