Numerous studies (Lamb. 1981, Parke, 1981; C. Lewis. 1986) show that the fathers than mothers, they adopt a form of relationship with their children rather than physical and active. Therefore, the physical play, tickling, tossing the child, doing somersaults, seem to preserve assets of fathers. The mothers instead assume different responsibilities of care, despite the great changes in social roles of males and females in recent decades. However, there remains the attitude of children in the differentiation of contact with his father to play the mother when they are scared. So it would seem more likely that social conventions give account of any differences observed between mothers and fathers. In any case, the belief that fathers are less receptive and capable, with children not found in many studies. The father is the one that marks the boundary, the boundary. The father's task is to release the child from the merger maternal world to transform it into an adult, to be able to start life and its trials: the struggles, in defeat, that life reserves. Unfortunately we are invaded by a culture of narcissism and entertainment, are the most exaggerated consumerism, expressions of the denial of paternity. Are manifestations of the archetype antagonist, mother of the Great Almighty, who does not agree to divide his power with the paternal principle. Should re-engage the value of paternal / male, and the archetype in the collective wake of his father, as part of initiation and transmission of gender identity. The child without a father or otherwise absent, there was a lack of a guide who led them through the process of masculinity, can seek support and recognition in the band. One of the basic tasks of the father is to educate his son to recognize and cultivate the vital instincts of the male, which represents the possibility of aggression "good". The educational value is the privilege of the mother, with the satisfaction of needs, making the margins, the masculine and paternal, constructive action. a regressive approach that failing the authority, creates insecurity, emptiness to fill in taking drugs and destructive reactions (Claudio Rise. "unacceptable the absent father, 2003) ... excerpts taken from" The comparison and sharing educational "thesis by Anna Lucia Crasti clinical educator at the conclusion of the course, at Isfar-Post-university occupations
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